I dont understand why?

I don't understand..
Why it is so bothering them..
Why they are too "concern" about me not getting pregnant yet...
And why it keeps troubling them that we are childless still...

Its not like they will going through the morning sickness for me (if im pregnant)..
Or..willing to share the every pain we have to go through (to have babies)...
Or paying the cost of treatment ...pay the bills and later the cost of rising the child for us...

when...
Actually..
The reality is..
NOW...

Instead what we are going through..
Instead the fact that we are struggling to have babies...
It never bother us to maximum but i wonder why it so bothering them...
We have a happy couple life...
We always enjoy our marriage..
We cherish and treasure every single moment we are together...

yes, sometimes it upsets us..
but we choose not to let the sorrow swallow our lives
and we choose not to let other people decide and interrupt in our lives
and we will not let their unpleasant comments and suggestion to run in our lives...
We choose to live our life to the fullest..
Either with or without children..
Coz we know God never make mistake..

We choose not to bother they feel bothered that we are not a part of them...
Because it was certain that we are not a part of them...
Even later we will be blesses with children..
Still, we will never be a part of them..
The journey that we are walking in will always make us different from them..

It's not that we choose to live in childfree world
Or it's not that we have stop wishing and trying
Or even stop dreaming..